My advice to Christian young women


So, I wrote a looong list of advice for Christian young men in our day and age and it only seemed fair (or maybe just symmetrical in my slightly OCD mind) to have a version for the ladies. What can an unmarried, childless woman tell you about life as a Christian woman and being a good future spouse? As it happens, quite a bit: Continue reading


My advice to Christian young men

cropped-30ishlogo14.jpgIf you all saw how many revisions (25) and outright rewrites (3) this post has gone through, you would probably laugh. The fact is that I take this topic really seriously and I wanted to handle it well. I wanted to approach this prayerfully and as kindly as possible.

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Happy Valentine’s Day!


To all my fellow singletons I wish you a wonderful Valentine’s Day! I love that V-Day is on a Sunday this year because it’s a great time to love on some family or a fellow singleton.

And if you want to catch me tomorrow, I’ll be at the store for 75% off the dark chocolate… yay!


Dating a shy girl

Unsurprisingly, I am watching Season 3 of Married at First Sight. It’s addicting, I’m afraid, and I definitely want to see the couples succeed!

This season I was particularly struck by the pair of Ashley and David. David is super-outgoing and wants to talk about everything (and-apparently-has a timeline for physical affection!) while Ashley is the more reticent and introverted partner. It’s a pair that probably could work really well if they both tweaked how they look at each other’s communication styles.

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